gender stuff, kink 

Finding myself at a slightly uncomfortable point of androgyny(?) where sufficiently queer people are seemingly willing to fudge their stated binary gender preferences as long as it looks like I'm gonna dom them


gender is bad, vent 

Honestly, it's more than slightly uncomfortable, I hate it, having to sit with the fact that their interest in me is conditional on my success at a performance I don't fuckin care about

But! Nobody listens when I tell them not to do that. What can you do 🤷

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