'Don't gender me' means: 

- I fucking hate gender. Keep it the fuck away from me.
- Don't use gendered language to talk about me. I'm not a girl, or boy, or enby, or agender. You don't need to refer to a gender when you're talking about me, ever, so don't.
- Don't call me non-binary. It's true, but I'm sick of the third gender bullshit that gets applied to non-binary people.
- I'm not going to object to being called trans, since it's also true, but mind the above.
- If you have gender preferences for things (intimacy, romance, kink, etc.) don't try to involve me in them in any way. Like, if gender is a consideration for you at all, leave me alone, I'm not interested.
- I'm restraining a lot of anger about gender basically at all times, so do not fuckin test me on this

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