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The 'it' pronouns dronekink person who outed me to a bunch of people back in tafe is now following me on twitter and wants to join the hypnokink discord I'm setting up

I do not know how to handle this

awkward kink intruding on irl social stuff 

Okay so

Turns out it (who I haven't talked to yet, to be clear, so this is an inference from dates lining up) is almost certainly also partners with an IRL friend of mine

Which is, like, approaching a risk of people I know IRL finding out about my kinks that I would describe as 'severe'

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awkward kink intruding on irl social stuff 

@HabitEXE is saying "no" an option

awkward kink intruding on irl social stuff 

@LilyVers Oh absolutely, but like

I feel a little bad doing that when it's just like, really only the awkward 'oh no someone I've met IRL knows about my kinks' thing that's a problem at this point

Especially when there's so few Aussie-ish hypnokink places, and this person's just unlucky that I happen to be running this one

awkward kink intruding on irl social stuff 

@HabitEXE yeah it def sounds awkward, and I don't know the situation (and am tired enough not to understand much)

but i mean, you gotta take care of yourself over all, right

awkward kink intruding on irl social stuff 

@HabitEXE Oh no, I'm really sorry.

I think that if folks on a server you run (yourself induced) have had bad experiences with someone, it's fair to do what you need to to keep it a safe space, including excluding some people.

Do what you think is right, you've done a great job running the discord I'm part of, and you know the situation better than me.

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@HabitEXE 😬

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