Habit @HabitEXE@mastodon.triggerphra.se

- I fucking hate gender. Keep it the fuck away from me.
- Don't use gendered language to talk about me. I'm not a girl, or boy, or enby, or agender. You don't need to refer to a gender when you're talking about me, ever, so don't.
- Don't call me non-binary. It's true, but I'm sick of the third gender bullshit that gets applied to non-binary people.
- I'm not going to object to being called trans, since it's also true, but mind the above.
- If you have gender preferences for things (intimacy, romance, kink, etc.) don't try to involve me in them in any way. Like, if gender is a consideration for you at all, leave me alone, I'm not interested.
- I'm restraining a lot of anger about gender basically at all times, so do not fuckin test me on this

Secret extra kinky / thirsty / flirty locked account: @HabitDB

Curiouscat: https://curiouscat.qa/HabitEXE
Queer Hypnokink Discord: http://discord.gg/V9HeqfT​
Oceanic Hypnokink Discord: https://discord.gg/sTvqsfJy9C
Mastodon: https://mastodon.triggerphra.se/@HabitEXE

Promoting the Queer Hypnosis Discord again! It's a server I admin that provides a relaxed, informative space to enjoy, discuss and share hypnosis as a kink.

We try to handle things differently from other online hypnosis spaces;
- Structural problems or changes are discussed openly and publicly with the community.
- Kink play is discussed with consent and safety in mind.
- No stifling gender / kink role assignment; exploration and expression are encouraged.
- We've got conversation-starting matchmaking channels, for people looking to meet new play partners.

Everyone's welcome to join, whether they wanna get involved or just lurk.

https://discord.gg/V9HeqfT​

Here's the ref sheet for Habit (the character).

I'm tired of hearing about heckin puppers

Where are the hackin puppers at

To clarify, I'm not saying like 'I'm gonna do monsterpit again!' or anything, it's just like

This specific perspective on / approach to kink is something I value a lot and would like to see flourish. It's not remotely unique to monsterpit (a lot of the folks from monsterpit are still doin what they were doin), but a lot of the stuff involved in that is increasingly unwelcome in mainstream online spaces

Hypno is just like, a small chunk of that that's v important to me, and I think I could do more

Which is to say I'm sorta thinking maybe hypnosis is too narrow a topic to run an instance on rn, and something that hits this kind of kink (not that I know how to distinguish it) a lil more broadly might be a better idea?

One thing that I really miss about monsterpit was that it was really, like... generalist? in terms of the kink coming out of it. Like, there were a lot of different things, but they were kinda related and approached similarly?

I don't know how I'd categorize what they were doin but like, it's a very distinct vibe from say, Fetlife (or even other kink-oriented Masto instances)

I'm not sure what context you'd have to provide to replicate that 🤔

I'm sure this is nothing new for you all but

Like, here's the thing; I'm not 'good' with computers, I
- know how to search for things
- am very persistent.

So I can get things, like, running, and maintain and troubleshoot and stuff. I can manage a community pretty well too, I think. I can help people learn how to use new platforms, like, I have the time and patience and skill to do that

But I can't develop software, and like, none of the stuff I can do can make any of this stuff more usable.

Idk, that sounds really judgemental, like, I get that it's also very hard to make stuff more usable, but like, *that's* the problem, and I can't do much about it, and it sucks

It's very frustrating to me that the one unifying problem with all of these software alternatives I would like to provide people with (the fact that they are harder to use and less established than what people are used to) is something I am not capable of fixing

The queer hypno Discord got flagged as NSFW on Discord, so folks on iOS aren't gonna be able to keep using it through the app

I'm pretty pissed about the whole situation. I'm keeping an eye out for fixes or workarounds, so lmk if you want me to keep you updated.

So far I have collected
- AI wife 😚
- Thief wife 😍
- Eco-fascist wife 😬
- Hacker wife 🤩

On the other hand though building it is kinda fun 😄

Idk, my response is once again "what if I set up the easiest open source alternative for hypno kink folks to use 🤔" but if I have learned anything from running this instance, it's that if you build it they will probably not come

@IsabelleHellraiser came up with a game idea and I have been mulling it over all night

It's a simple lil multiplayer game, where you're sorted into a (or form your own) collective of totally anonymous (*maybe* with a serial number), identical mini drone pixel avatars, and you work together to shuffle around boxes in a lil pixel grid to make images

You can do emotes and preset images at each other but there's no text chat / DMs / anything, just a buncha drones hanging out, vibing, and working on some assigned tasks together

Abruptly ending all attempts at petplay with 'oh, sorry, I don't think my lease allows pets in the apartment'

I mean in general I do have a thing for test subject subs, like

If I'm getting someone to come up with mantras for me, we'll know it's catchy when they can't seem to get it out of their head

Hiring a ghostwriter to do mantras for me

Got another one for the list of 'inscrutable concepts that inspire Habit's currently non-existent ideal dronekink aesthetic'

Feeling a pretty strong desire to like, demonstrate what I'm capable of as a hypno kink person

I'm pretty good at this shit I think, and I wanna show off 😤

Giving subs the DBZ instant transmission noise as a trigger that just makes them space out until I can get behind them, so I can finally live out my anime fantasy of teleporting behind someone

https://twitter.com/quanjiu09

Specifically, these two posts. There's blood in the first link
https://twitter.com/quanjiu09/status/1354509191143071744
https://twitter.com/quanjiu09/status/1354509328607186947

Does anyone know who this artist is?

(images all depict demonic / angelic looking characters with wings / other non-human features, in v artistic, light bondage, there's a sword in one of them)

Bf found a horny artist whose style I adore but he found it unsourced and reverse image search isn't helping 😩😩😩