Ladykiller in a Bind kinda strikes me as a game that wants to have its cake and eat it too

It goes to some lengths to establish the consensual nature of the kink, while also trying to get the player into it by putting them in a coercive situation?

You can depict non-consensual kink/sex in fiction, but I think if you're doing it in a game you need to be a little smarter than that about where you draw the line between the player and their character