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Anyway I made @BunnieDB as a weird sort of personal thirstposting kind of deal, if you want this account but like, very honest and less filtered, then maybe follow it

I'm thinking rn I'll only accept requests from mutuals tho

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Basically I'm just trying to practice expressing positive, not-reluctant interest in kink stuff, it's something I really struggle with and can be a problem

A lot of habits and behaviours I picked up in my early kink days were born out of like, fantasy noncon stuff, and even though I'm like, fully up on proper consent practices and stuff I really struggle with enthusiasm and not being crazy nervous whenever sex or kink comes up

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I do want to distinguish the point of this account from exhibitionism, like, this isn't a thing where I want everyone to go follow my secret sexy account or whatever, this is like, a kind of stepping stone for personal growth, that also happens to take a lot of useless thirsty stuff of my main horny acct

You're certainly not missing anything if you don't follow it, like, this is where all the good stuff will be

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As much as it's fantasise about someone who comes into my life, sees what I'm about and cuts right through my anxiety and hesitation, I know that leads to unhealthy relationships

The best way to form a good intimate relationship is to be clear and honest in your communication, and to do that I need to be clear and honest with myself.

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Maybe some people find the shyness cute or w/ever (and tbh I don't think it's ever going away completely) but lately I feel like it's been an impediment, and I don't think it's as important as proper dialogue between play partners, especially if it's not an established relationship

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Really glad I made my thirst acct because lately the only posts I can make on it are variations on (pictured), and I need somewhere to do that

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@BunnieEXE It is, especially when there are elements of ”no means yes” happening. I made a mistake about 10 years ago (not properly negotiating a safe word or gagged fallback) resulting in a really sweet guy giving me a traumatic bondage experience without meaning to, and he didn't see I was in real distress until it was too late. Haven't seriously submitted to anyone since, and I spend more time talking to potential subs now to avoid doing that to someone.

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@drowsydawg Yeah, communication is so so important, I've always been really adamant about that. Someone being unwilling or rendering me unable to communicate in any way during kink play is like, the single biggest red flag I have.

I'm sorry you went through that, it sounds awful. Do you think you could get back into subbing under the right circumstances?

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@BunnieEXE I would absolutely try, given the right situation. I just can't handle pain the way I used to, and I'm not up to doing a lot of physical slave labor anymore thanks to arthritis etc. But the right man, with the right look in his eyes, the right scent, a patient attitude, a safeword and a voice that relaxes me could get me back on my knees for at least a night. Maybe longer, if he caught my wife's fancy as well. It's a long shot, though.

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